Simmering conflicts?

Mediators observe that it is better when people speak directly and respectfully about their needs, but know that people have to be ready to do this. After a hurt, there is so much vulnerability. It may not feel safe to take that step.

Even with simple, everyday conflicts - or irritations that haven't yet become conflicts - it is a tough choice whether to say anything. But, we know that forestalling a conflict with clear communication is very efficient. It can set the other person at ease if they know you are communicating with them along the way. How many of us have known people who hold it in until they blow?

Have any simmering conflicts? Take a day to learn some fresh approaches. We are offering Communication and Conflict Resolution Skills training Friday, March 20 from 9-4 in Carrboro. It will be interactive and fun. Register at www.disputesettlement.org.